I want to share a little wisdom that I’ve learned over the years. I want to encourage you.
Don’t give up on meeting people. Especially don’t give up on finding love. You will find someone you can enjoy and love.
Leave your safe place and circulate and talk with everyone you feel led to. They want a friend as much as you do. And if you’re lucky, and the chemistry is right, your world may be turned upside down, and your happiness and their happiness will become blissful.
I remember when I was shy when I forced myself to sit down where a lovely lady sat. I asked if I might join her….and if she could use a little company? Each time I was invited to enjoy a deep conversation and often we walked to a local coffee shop hand-in-hand and talked until midnight. That began the seeds of a loving relationship.
Over time I overcame shyness. I’m older now and I’m not so self-conscious. Even now I’ve never been turned away when I ask a lovely lady “Can I join you and can you use some company tonight?”